When I was 37 years old, I suspected it might not be true. Like all Dianond, we are somewhat competitive and we all want to be seen as successful, but we also have learned to be honest with each other.
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We not only talk about our sexual successes, but also our failures, fears, Cayman Toledo sex confusions.
From the time I was a young I learned that wanting sex was synonymous with being a man. In Women want sex Diamond school, I remember overhearing a girl I liked talking about a guy we both knew. This early lesson was validated through the years: Always sexx sex is the mark of manliness for many.
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So, what do men want more than sex? Sure, there is esx physical pleasure, but there is a deeper need that is being satisfied.
I call it the need for a safe harbor. The world of men is a world of competition.
On the most basic level, males compete with other males for access to the most desirable females. Males make the advances and females decide which males they will accept.
Getting taken into her body gives us a sense of peace and homecoming that goes way beyond simple sexual pleasure. Many of us remember the early school dances we attended.
If you Women want sex Diamond to hold a girl in your arms, you had to make the long walk across the room with everyone watching and ask the girl to dance. If she accepted, you were in heaven.
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If she refused you were in hell. The key here is that you must make yourself vulnerable to rejection to hold and be held by a girl.
We long for someone who sees us for who we are and wants us anyway, who can hold us and touch, not just our body, but our hearts and souls. What we really want is a safe harbor where we Women want sex Diamond take refuge, relax, and be cared for.
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But admitting these needs makes us Women want sex Diamond like little boys, not big strong men. One of the things I love getting from my wife, Carlin, is to lay in her lap and have Damond scalp rubbed. This is one, wonderful, safe harbor.Hot Housewives Seeking Casual Sex Scranton
I just have to ask for it. I just must be willing to be deeply vulnerable.
There are three main reasons, which are often subconscious:. It takes a lot Diamojd time and maturity for men to admit to themselves that they need a safe harbor where they can be nurtured and embraced by a woman. It takes a lot of courage to let his woman know he may want Women want sex Diamond, but more important is his need for security, love, and nurture.
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Women want sex Diamond requires a level of wisdom to know that allowing ourselves to be as vulnerable as a child may be the manliest thing a man can do.
For a woman, she must also go beyond her own conditioning and be open to a man who is making himself vulnerable in new ways.
She must have a great deal of self-love and self-confidence to accept being a safe harbor. She must also have the strength to protect herself, when his shame at being vulnerable turns to anxietyangeror depression. Women want sex Diamond look forward Dianond hearing your comments and experience.
Jed Diamond, Ph. Jed is the author of 14 books including his latest: The Enlightened Marriage: Get stories that matter directly in you inbox! Share on Facebook.
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