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Butt is a good way to dezperate off depression. Great article. Hi everyone. Very isolated I m lonely but not desperate anti-social. Very meaningless. I m lonely but not desperate of you are alone. Its all surface crap and meaningless dialogue. Stay strong. Back in time when earths population was numbered in the millions there was a great deal of isolation. Without being to wordy I will add some things I find helps. Books, I m lonely but not desperate is quite awesome and a way to stay connected, nothing like a good book to engross you in human thought.

Nature is spectacular, please spend more time in it. The search for self is also a wonderful thing. It never gets old, the questions, why am I here, who am I, what is important in what I think? Of course number Asian pussy Sacramento is I have found Jesus Christ to be about the best friend a person can have.

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Shame really but what can you do? You can be happy…with you, that we can control. Best to all. I like the basis of your comment. I have no religion, so I will keep my views to my self in that regard. I do think that our society has become more inward and selfish. But have you ever went anywhere in public and for no reason at all, to give a smile nto someone.

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Hello to everyone. These sites are very informative and helpful. But, like many if you, there are times when there are only feelings of emptiness, lonelinessand depression.

I HATE having those feelings! Ten years ago, I watched as my year-old daughter was pronounced dead by the ER physician.

She I m lonely but not desperate developed a blood clot in her leg that escaped many doctors. Buf life changed forever that night! I was diagnosed with having clinical depression at around age 30 however; I am certain I struggled with it as a teenager. I have been through the ugliness of depression…extreme sadness, feeling like no one likes me or understands me, the negative self-talk, the thoughts of wanting to die!

When I recognized that it was depression that I struggled with and I thank Oprah for having that show on depression that I happened to have seen …well, it was like an epiphany, and the next day I called and made an appointment to see a doctor.

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I I m lonely but not desperate do anything for them yet they always treat me bad one way or another. I am a very caring person I work as a carer helping other people. Never stop and think what I would like to do, as I never have so have no idea what I would like to do now.

I can understand what everyone on here feels like. It would be great if we could all find solutions to this feeling and start to feel happy like most people. I, too, feel something may be wrong with me because suddenly at age 61 I have become more hermit-like, though I am deeply in love my boyfriend of two years.

I think Joe below is right when he says its harder than ever to connect with people, to even like them anymore! I understand the reasons, thank God but the end result is after 61 years I am out of steam and find myself avoiding most people because their energy is mostly negative or self-absorbed or clueless.

Also, I have always been very sensitive, but gregarious usually, popular even mostly. No need to worry much about her. So that sort of neglect, despite ministering to THEM for years and years left me a little bitter I must say.

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Good luck to everyone and God bless. Hi Ellen, you sound exactly like me. Great luck to you. Please be happy, you are worth it. This is a tough world to be sensitive in.

Good luck, Jim. PS In order to grow spiritually, many years ago now I sought detachment as much as possible. I also worked hard and still do, to Master looking for sub female my ego, not feed it. Maybe those two spiritual practices, though beneficial in many great ways, well maybe I took it too far. But all I know is I am more superficial with people now keep my interactions mostly superficial with most and prefer it that way.

My path now. Nearly everyone on this planet now seems to think they only live for the moment, for money, for their families and friends and petty politics or interest group and everything else be damned- God, the world, the environment, your neighbor.

It is a bleak time to be in the body, I will say that, but it will get better. We are on the cusp of a spiritual rebirth believe it or not. Also I think this method worked wonders for me. I feel like no one likes me. Cj I hear you, and know your loneliness, you must be patient and wait, find I m lonely but not desperate, distract your thoughts, start to think positive about yourself, tell yourself f… all i am going to enjoy life and I deserve happiness.

Take care. What have I said wrong? Where are my mistakes? How to correct them? I reached out, but it seems that all of my friendships fell out.

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I feel so alone. Back about 4 or 5 years ago I was a happy person, who would engage in some hard anxiety problems in the night. It would only happen some very few times. Now it happens everytime. I isolate and end up more depressed than I was before.

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